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Why Female Psychopaths Are So Hard to Recognize | Dr. Fiona Girkin
Hannah Spier, MD

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I’m joined by Dr Fiona Girkin, a researcher specialising in female psychopathy and dark personality traits, whose doctoral research examined workplace bullying in the community services sector. We discuss relational aggression, weaponised victimhood, revenge, parental alienation and the difference between everyday selfishness and calculated abuse. We also explore whether feminism, social media and a lack of accountability are rewarding destructive behaviour and how to recognise warning signs in workplaces, friendships and romantic relationships.

Find Dr Fiona Girkin:

Website: https://www.drfionagirkin.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrFionaGirkin

CHAPTERS

00:00 Female psychopathy hiding in plain sight

01:39 Psychopathy, narcissism and psychosis explained

05:20 Primary vs. secondary psychopathy

08:45 Fiona’s research: bullying in the helping professions

12:09 Charm, oversharing and weaponised victimhood

15:06 “Flying monkeys”: getting others to do the dirty work

19:06 Sadism, revenge and parental alienation

21:47 How common is female psychopathy?

25:17 Social media, accountability and rewarded behaviour

30:25 Have clinical labels replaced the language of evil?

35:01 Female psychopathy in positions of power

37:24 What does it look like in a girlfriend or wife?

40:16 Feminist entitlement vs. calculated abuse

44:33 Stalking and control after separation

47:13 Dating: recognising warning signs and genuine kindness

54:20 Leaving a manipulative relationship

57:50 Why choosing the right partner matters